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Apr 25, 2023·edited Apr 25, 2023Liked by Jim Hightower

BETWEEN THE COVERS

This obsession with what's between or beneath the covers is unhealthy and unholy. Don't like what I or my friends and their kids read? Then don't open the book--we're not forcing you to read it.

Don't like what I'm under the covers with? (I'm gay.) Then stay out of my bedroom--I'm not forcing you to do as I do. Don't like who I'm under the covers as? (I'm trans.) Then don't touch; for that matter, don't assume you have the right to examine me at all. I for sure don't want to be that near you.

These ultra-right busybodies seem to be covering for some deeply seated terror that the other side is much, much better. A whiff of something leftist is enough to convert someone to socialism. The mere mention of same sex and all those dissatisfied heterosexuals immediately change orientation.

And trans is the most disturbing. It calls up the nagging fear of being insufficiently feminine, pretty. Even worse, the terrible male insecurity around being seen as unmanly, sissy, not hard enough. That there might be more than binary, something beyond an easy either/or, is a slippery slope. Where one's foundational identity crumbles at the very idea of indefinite.

Well, no. All it means is that I have had to carefully consider who I am. That in no way changes anyone else's identity. Nor do I want to--with the possible exception that I wish these right wing folks were self-loving enough not to feel they they have to alter everyone else to feel secure in themselves.

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Thanks, Jim, from a retired career librarian. Friends seem fazed after asking what I do in retirement and I reply "Oh, I read books, and I read books...". You've got me thinking I should read more books featuring LGBTQ+ characters (a world I'm just enough acquainted with to know I support them).

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Is this the new "Substack" thing? Can't live without the prime agitator.

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Indeed! Thank you!

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Apr 24, 2023Liked by Jim Hightower

Catherine...I love High tower in any form he comes in.

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I WAS WONDERING HOW LONG IT WOULD BE BEFORE YOU'D GET TO THE BIBLE!

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